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By: A Modern Goddess Online » Empowering Women - Issue 12

A Modern Goddess Online » Empowering Women - Issue 12 — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:14:11 +0000

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By: Carnival of Self Help and Inspiration - Sep 2007

Carnival of Self Help and Inspiration - Sep 2007 — Wed, 14 Nov 2007 15:48:47 +0000

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By: Ellesse

Ellesse — Sun, 07 Oct 2007 09:16:36 +0000

Thank you Liosis, for your views. Appreciate it. Yes, you’re right that it’s anyone’s entitlement to decide if they should be ashamed of their past actions. However, I think I need to make a clear distinction of being ashamed and taking positive actions about it versus being ashamed and totally denying it’s as part of your entirety. The latter, in my opinion is just self denial disguised to cover an wound that physically there all the time. Yes, though people on the outside can’t see the wound and the person afflicted with it can imagine it’s not there at all, the pain is there. It hurts. Attempting to forget about it is a seemingly good solution, but it wouldn’t make the pain go away. And it’s only when you squarely confront it, apply ointment on it that it will recover. Even when it leaves a scar on your perfect body, there will be no pain. Instead, it’s a trophy of you winning a tremendous victory.

Naturally, this is a choice.

A choice between living with your imperfection. Or winning over them.

By: Liosis

Liosis — Sat, 06 Oct 2007 21:46:28 +0000

You know it is bloody hard to do that right? And what in the world is wrong with being ashamed of things that have happened to you? I know myself that I judge people based on how I myself have matured or achieved, I hold myself as the lowest rung and expect anyone else (especially those older than me) to do better. But we cannot expect this of people, and if someone feels like they should deny something that is their right. If they have learned through hard experience that what they do is considered shameful than it will take a great deal for them to stand up to it, and what in the world would the point be to stand up to the prejudice of someone you have never met?

Not that I don’t agree with the fact that you should be honest, that you should accept your failings, and so on. But it isn’t something everyone can do, and if they feel like they have to it will make them even worse off than before.

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By: Widows Quest

Widows Quest — Sun, 23 Sep 2007 15:08:26 +0000

Carnival of Positive Thinking…

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