Comments on: What Optimistic People Do When They’re Stuck …

By: Jojo Pera

Jojo Pera — Fri, 04 Mar 2011 04:12:32 +0000

The best way to overcome any adversity is to become a positively motivated person. Let me put you in a mathematical perspective.

positve + positive = positive negative + negative= negative

as you can see a positve input would result in a positive sum and so with the negative.

Now that is in addition. In multiplication it is a whole new thing again.

positive x positve = positive here is the catch negative x negative = positive

we can make something negative into a positive thing.

Surely a positive outlook would result to a more brighter and wonderful life than a negative one.

By: Ellesse

Ellesse — Wed, 08 Dec 2010 06:38:26 +0000

@AJ You’re right. What confines us is not our circumstances or issues. But rather the span of our own thoughts. It can very stifling. Or it can be liberating or limitless

By: AJ

AJ — Tue, 07 Dec 2010 19:07:09 +0000

So True Ellesse!!!…Once you start on the path of positivity…possible becomes a limitless word…You are so free that undicovered infinity within you triggers solution for toughest moment, situation, issue or circumstances in life. I have been experencing the same for over two months now… Life has become so easy and limitless.

By: Ellesse

Ellesse — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 02:15:56 +0000

@Grace You're right! Personally, I do consult one of my sister for advice whenever I'm stuck. More often than not, she helps me put things into a positive perspective and that's an important part of the whole reframing process. But this can be a double edge sword though. Especially if that "person" leads u away from what you should be doing so it's important to weigh the feedback that was given to you. Especially on your goals. In case you're wondering why I said that, check out this.

By: Grace

Grace — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 04:15:07 +0000

I’ve alway tried to be optimistic about everything in my life but when something passes my limit, I usually confront my parents or trusted friends. Friends always have the right answer that they usually blurt out so it makes me comfortable around them and telling them about my situation. ^.^

By: Ellesse

Ellesse — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 02:53:51 +0000

@Ebony Thanks for your suggestions! I’m glad the things here helped you and boy, I’ve to agree with you on the power of music. I’m a huge fan of it

By: Ebony

Ebony — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 17:51:37 +0000

This is a great website, and it was very helpful. I received help so I will give. It often works for me to take a walk outside or listen to music that I love. These are just two, and different things work at different times. Today I needed something else, and while I’m not sure if I found it. This did get my mind off things and make me smile. So thanks and by the way sitting still in a quiet place to clear your head is not a bad way either.

By: Ellesse

Ellesse — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 14:47:36 +0000

@Don Mediation… hmm. I’ve heard it works well in clearing the mind. I’ve never tried it before but I guess it must have it’s merits. Feel free to browse around Goal Setting College. If you’ve got great thoughts to share, drop me a mail yeah

By: Don Jacks

Don Jacks — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 15:08:54 +0000

Being stuck is normal for us all at times I believe. A walk, short meditation or a few pages of a very inspiring book helps me in most cases get my miind on straight. Like it’s been said above, talking w/trusted advisors helps, sometimes, except when we KNOW the response we will get and just have to trust our gut and GO FOR IT!

I just found this website and love it. Thanks for the inspiration.

Merry Christmas to all!

By: Ellesse

Ellesse — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 09:14:27 +0000

@Andre Fantastic, thanks for clearing the air about LOA and intuitive work! I think it gives readers who’re interested to go for a spiritual reading a completely refreshing take on it. Oh I see, so Tarot cards can be used as a tool as well! Will check out that book you mentioned. Thanks for the recommendation!

You’re so right about the issue people have with LOA. Naturally, if they’re constantly seeing scarcity and limitation, they’ll manifest more of such in their lives. What made this interesting is, it actually contravenes some of the conventional ideas we’ve been hearing. For example, the subject of saving money. Being thrifty actually emphasizes on the scarcity & lack and many people (including myself) believes in the importance of it. At the end of the day, it’s important to maintain a balance and that’s probably – in my opinion – what makes certain ideas difficult to employ.

@Lola, thanks for adding to the chatter! I’m glad you like the story. I was mesmerized by its simplicity when I first read it and knew I had to share it!